"In everything I showed you that by working hard in this manner you must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, that He Himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive."'
Acts 20:35
A "taker" is not necessarily a bad person. He is just someone who expects others to give to him. He is not especially good at seeing opportunities for giving or generosity toward others. He misses the joy that comes from the love willing to sacrifice his own wants and needs for the good of others. Let us think about the Lord's promise, "It is more blessed to give than to receive."
One of the everlasting beatitudes in the Bible is: "It is more blessed to give than to receive." (Acts 20:35). Is the giver happier than the receiver? How many actually believe this and put it into practice?! Indeed, it is "more blessed to give than to receive." Indeed, it is more blessed to be a giver than a taker. The givers seem to be happier than the takers. It is natural to want to be blessed or happy, but how many know what it takes to be completely happy?! God, our Creator, knows and tells us how to find and pursue happiness in His Word. Happiness does not depend on our material riches. As material riches soar, happiness remains relatively unchanged. So the question is: is there a connection between giving to others and increased happiness? This is where I want to focus on my study.
But there is a problem! Our intuitions or instincts cry out against it. Ironically, many are unaware of the hidden key to true happiness. Most fail to acknowledge that giving to others brings more joy than spending money to satisfy the desires of the flesh. But Christ's followers must not think this way! Our Lord Jesus has taught us that "it is more blessed to give than to receive." (Acts 20:35). Do we believe it and live according to our Lord's teachings? It is God's plan for man to give. Man has been designed to give to others, so as a matter of fact, this is what will bring him the greatest satisfaction.
As children of God, we must grasp the importance of giving to others freely since God has blessed us and given us so much beyond our comprehension. Our desire should be to bless others because our Creator has blessed us so abundantly, both with physical and spiritual riches. In a few words, all Christians should live to give, not to earn blessings and praises, but because we owe our God immensely (the gift of salvation). It is the right thing to do. It will lead us to greater joy and blessings. So, do you want to find satisfaction in life? Then, start giving more!
Consider the following reasons why it is more blessed to give than to receive:
- God is the preeminent Giver:
- Everything belongs to God:
- We are stewards of God's blessings:
- The parable of the talents: (Matthew 25:14-30).
- The parable of the rich fool: (Luke 12:15-21).
- The parable of the unrighteous steward: (Luke 16:1-13).
- The parable of the ten minas, usage of money: (Luke 19:11-27).
All Christians are God's stewards and ought to administer God's grace freely and diligently. In the first century, the apostles would lay their hands on certain Christians to impart various spiritual gifts through the Holy Spirit (I Corinthians 12:4-11). And though today we don't have the same "miraculous spiritual gifts," we still have spiritual gifts that we need to manage and use well. Consider what Romans 12:6-8 has to say about the best use of God's gifts to us:
"Since we have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, each of us is to exercise them accordingly: if prophecy, according to the proportion of his faith; if service, in his serving; or he who teaches, in his teaching; or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness."
Notice that the "distribution" is a gift of God. Therefore, we must use those gifts well according to the will of God. "As each one has received a special gift, employ it in serving one another as good stewards of the manifold grace of God." (I Peter 4:10).
- It is in giving that we are doing God's will, obeying His commandment:
"Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.'" (Matthew 25:34-40).
"Let the thief no longer steal, but rather let him labor, doing honest work with his own hands, so that he may have something to share with anyone in need." (Ephesians 4:28)
"As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy. They are to do good, to be rich in good works, to be generous and ready to share." (I Timothy 6:17-18).
"who gave himself for us to redeem us from all lawlessness and to purify for himself a people for his own possession who are zealous for good works." (Titus 2:14).
"Remind them to be submissive to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready for every good work... that those who have believed in God may be careful to devote themselves to good works. These things are excellent and profitable for people. And let our people also learn to maintain good works, to meet urgent needs, that they may not be unfruitful." (Titus 3:1,8,14).
- It is in giving that we are submitting to the Lordship of Jesus:
- Giving shows God's lovingkindness, His grace to all man:
Jesus’ sacrifice is our measure of sacrificial giving (John 3:16). The apostle Paul exhorts us to give more. This is seen in his letters. In his letter to the Corinthians, the apostle Paul pointed them to Christ, Christ's character, "For to this end also I wrote, so that I might put you to the test whether you are obedient in all things." (2 Corinthians 2:9). When we give sacrificially with eagerness of heart, we abound in God's grace, love, faith, obedience... In giving to others, we are proclaiming the "good news" of the Gospel of our Lord and Savior. There is no other way!
- The grace of giving:
"Now, brethren, we wish to make known to you the grace of God which has been given in the churches of Macedonia, that in a great ordeal of affliction their abundance of joy and their deep poverty overflowed in the wealth of their liberality. For I testify that according to their ability, and beyond their ability, they gave of their own accord, begging us with much urging for the favor of participation in the support of the saints, and this, not as we had expected, but they first gave themselves to the Lord and to us by the will of God." (2 Corinthians 8:1-5).So, how much should we give? We find the answer in Acts 11:29:
"And the disciples, every man according to his ability, determined to send relief unto the brethren that dwelt in Judaea."
In this letter to the Corinthians, Paul speaks of the grace of God. So, what does grace have to do with giving? It has much to do with it. The word "grace" means "favor." Therefore, giving is an expression of God's favor, a blessing from God. When we give, God is blessing us. When we fill God's plate, He is filling ours as well. If we only knew that there is nothing else that can make a Christian happier than knowing that he is doing the will of God. And in doing this, our God is well pleased. He is delighted. Giving glorifies our God.
- Giving trusts God's provision:
- Giving advances or grows God's kingdom, His church:
Many of us have contributed in one way or another to the success of a secular business. But we must not forget that we must contribute to the Lord's work, His church. We must give the Lord our time, ourselves, our riches, and everything. This will help the church evangelize and meet the needs of the saints. We must purpose in our hearts to invest spiritually for the welfare of those who are dying because of sin. We can help and be partakers financially of what God has blessed us with in spreading the Gospel to save souls. We can provide for the needs of a local preacher who has dedicated his life to evangelizing and changing lives damaged because of the weight of sin. Our dollars can change homes, relationships, nations, and, most importantly, the souls of those lost.
- Giving sanctifies us:
- Giving is a demonstration of our love:
"But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in deed and in truth." (I John 3:17-18).
- Giving testifies of God's power:
- Giving praises and vindicates God's character:
Giving cheerfully without remorse is an act of worship. It renders a tribute of honor and praise to God. This is how we must express our gratitude toward Him. It reveals our faithfulness and thanksgiving to Him, the "Author" of all our blessings: The good gifts that come from above to us. As David sang: "What shall I render to the LORD for all His benefits toward me?" ( Psalm 116:12).
CONCLUSION:
God has blessed us bountifully. He has generously blessed us with both physical and spiritual riches. Likewise, He has blessed us richly with a family (wife, husband, and children). This is one of God's most special blessings toward us. He also has blessed us with a spiritual family, the church. As His children, we ought to imitate Him in our kindness, generosity, love, and giving (Ephesians 5:1). And though it is God's commandment, it is the only way to find satisfaction and true happiness. With all the blessings in giving, let us be cheerful givers without regret. Let us give with joy in our hearts.
"And God is able to make all grace abound to you, so that having all sufficiency in all things at all times, you may abound in every good work." (2 Corinthians 9:8).
May we learn from Jesus, who gave Himself freely on the cross to die for our sins. May we always remember that giving gives us joy and glorifies our God. May we give ourselves completely to our Creator and freely extend His grace to others.
Luci